My phone number changes from time to time! If you can't get ahold of me - email me. \
6/14-15: Unavailable
6/30-7/1: LA
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8/4-8/8: SF
8/13-15: Unavailable
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Frequently Asked Questions
Let's take care of it right away so that we can jump right into our date!
Let’s get it out of the way early so we can enjoy the rest of our time together. If we’re meeting privately: Please place the unsealed, unmarked envelope in the bathroom at the start of our date. I’ll discreetly excuse myself to confirm the amount—thank you for understanding. (Feel free to freshen up or grab a breath mint while you’re in there.) If we’re meeting in public for the first time: Please tuck the envelope or card into something discreet—like a book, folder, or gift bag. Please do not give me an envelope in a public setting.
If we've met before, you may wait until we're in a more private setting.
It depends where we're meeting! My wardrobe allows me to blend in nearly anywhere you have in mind. If you're coming to my incall, my default is a cocktail dress and heels.
For outcalls and public outings, discretion is always my main priority. I aim to blend in. Depending on the season, time of day, and city of our date, I will arrive in modest clothing that suits the environment and occasion.
If there's a general vibe you’re hoping for (cocktail dress, casual,, thigh-highs, yoga pants...), feel free to let me know.
I do not accept outfit instructions—“wear this exact thing”—as I've found it tends to create a transactional dynamic that extends into the rest of the date.
For fashion enthusiasts with a taste for designer… requests may be accommodated over a shopping date.
Unless you have special requests, you just need to bring yourself. If we're spending more than an hour together, drinks to start the evening is a good idea. If you'd like to bring snacks... fresh fruit, nuts, or charcuterie will be devoured!
I would strongly prefer that you not bring sweets to our dates (even "healthy" ones!) I would hate for your lovely gesture to go to waste!
I no longer see anyone under 30. I don't make exceptions.
I apply extra screening to potential dates under 35. If you're under 35 and hoping to meet me, 2 references from reputable providers will get you through the front doors :)
I am not able to travel or offer overnights to gentlemen in their 30s unless we've spent multiple dates together.
I had no idea until recently that this question was on so many people's minds...!
I regret to inform you that my background is predominantly from Western European countries. I'm ~10% something slightly more interesting, and I'm often told my eyes and cheekbones give it away. You can be the judge in person :)
I would gladly participate in a website that has non-explicit reviews and exists for the sake of verifying legitimacy and whether photos are accurate. Unfortunately, such a site does not exist! We can debate the merits of that other site another time. We live in the United States, and I'm not interested in a website that ranks providers on whether they offer anal. That said, I think my extensive web presence verifies that I am, indeed, real (and I won't rob you). I'm also told my Twitter is an excellent display of my personality (though I've heard I'm a bit sweeter than my posts might suggest). I am scrupulus about my photos reflecting reality. As far as the blur; as my dear friend Petra Kent wrote on her duos page, I have an "unforgettable face." I guess you'll have to see for yourself whether that's a good thing.
The truth is, seeing and choosing a companion is an imperfect art. I can't guarantee we'll be a perfect match, but most people who end up in my inbox are the ones I get along with.
