Frequently Asked Questions

Let's take care of it right away so that we can jump right into our date!Let’s get it out of the way early so we can enjoy the rest of our time together. If we’re meeting privately: Please place the unsealed, unmarked envelope in the bathroom at the start of our date. I’ll always excuse myself to confirm the amount is accurate. Thank you for understanding. If we’re meeting in public for the first time: Please tuck the envelope or card into something discreet—like a book, folder, or gift bag. Please do not give me an envelope in a public setting.If we've met before, you may wait until we're in a more private setting.

It depends where we're meeting! My wardrobe allows me to blend in nearly anywhere you have in mind. If you're coming to my incall, my default is a dress and heels. For outcalls and public outings, discretion is always my main priority. I aim to blend in. Depending on the season, time of day, and the city of our date, I will arrive in modest clothing suited to the environment and occasion.

If there's a general vibe you’re hoping for (cocktail dress, casual,, thigh-highs, yoga pants...), feel free to let me know. I do not accept outfit instructions—“wear this exact thing”—as I've found it tends to create a transactional dynamic that extends into the rest of the date. For fashion enthusiasts with a taste for designer… requests may be accommodated over a shopping date.

Unless you have special requests, you just need to bring yourself. If we're spending more than an hour together, drinks to start the evening is a good idea. If you'd like to bring snacks... fresh fruit, nuts, or charcuterie will be devoured! I would strongly prefer that you not bring sweets to our dates (even "healthy" ones!) I would hate for your lovely gesture to go to waste!

I love duos*! I have some fantastic duo partners across the country and several companions on my list that I'd love to meet :) 2 hour minimum*

For all new clients, I only accept cash. Regular clients, please inquire about electronic payment options if interested. Please do not assume you will be able to pay the balance electronically on arrival-- that may not be an option.

I no longer see anyone under 30. I don't make exceptions. ​ I apply extra screening to potential dates under 35. If you're under 35 and hoping to meet me, 2 references from reputable providers will get you through the front doors :) I am not able to travel or offer overnights to gentlemen in their 30s unless we've spent multiple dates together.

My most common dates - even on a first meeting - are 4-6 hours. My rates are structured to favor extended dates that mirror a "real life" date. I find having a drink , meal, or activity to feel the most natural and the best way to build chemistry.

I can eat at almost every restaurant cuisine. Sadly, Chinese and Japanese are difficult for me due to some food allergies! Sushi can work, but. please chat with me about it before booking :)

I had no idea until recently that this question was on so many people's minds...! The best way I can answer this: my look is very "girl next door," "all-American." My 23andMe lights up for nearly every Western European country for those wanting to get into the nitty gritty. I'm occasionally told my eyes suggest something a bit more interesting-- you can be the judge of that!

5'5, often 5'9 in heels 34D-27-39 7.5 shoes

I would gladly participate in a website that offers non-explicit reviews and exists to verify legitimacy and photo accuracy. Unfortunately, such a site does not exist! We can debate the merits of that other site another time. We live in the United States, and I'm not interested in a website that ranks providers based on whether they offer anal. That said, I think my extensive web presence verifies that I am, indeed, real (and I won't rob you). I'm also told my Twitter is an excellent display of my personality (though I've heard I'm a bit sweeter than my posts might suggest). I am scrupulous about my photos reflecting reality. As far as the blur, as my dear friend Petra Kent wrote on her duo's page, I have an "unforgettable face." I guess you'll have to see for yourself whether that's a good thing!The truth is, seeing and choosing a companion is an imperfect art. I can't guarantee we'll be a perfect match, but most people who end up in my inbox are people I get along with.

Yes. I offer in-person screening for 4h+ dates, paid 100% in advance. ID must be shown upon meeting in a public place, you must be somewhat verifiable (a google search reveals your job or a LinkedIn), and a background check will be performed for my safety.