Q & A
How should I present your compensation?
Let's take care of it right away so that we can jump right into our date!
-If we're meeting behind closed doors... please place the unsealed, unmarked envelope in the bathroom near the beginning of our date. Feel free to take this time at the start of our date to freshen up or pop one of my provided breath mints :). Thank you for understanding that I will excuse myself to confirm the proper amount is in the envelope.
-If we have a public meeting planned... And it's the first time we're meeting, please place your unmarked envelope/card discreetly into a gift bag. While this should go without saying, I gently request that you not give me with an envelope in a public setting.
What will you be wearing when we meet?
It depends where we're meeting! My wardrobe allows me to blend in nearly anywhere you have in mind. If you're coming to my incall, my default is a cocktail dress and heels.
For outcalls and public outings, discretion is always my main priority, and I aim to blend in. Depending on the season, time of day, and even the city our date is taking place in, I will arrive in modest clothing that suits the environment and occasion. Typically, business-casual chic or "date night" casual attire.
"East Coast-based?" Where do you live... anyway?
As of April 2021, I am not available in my home-base. I am only available when visiting cities (see my newsletter!) and for limited FMTY. For now, I spend time in DC and NYC every 1-3 months.
Do you take special outfit requests?
To a certain extent... please read on :). Personally, I only accept general requests -- like a category of attire, for example - casual/jeans, cocktail dress, thigh-highs/garter, yoga pants, etc. If there's a specific color you have in mind, feel free to let me know.
I appreciate your understanding that I've found the more specific-- "wear exactly this outfit, Barbie doll"-- requests to create a dynamic that isn't suited to the dynamic I prefer with my suitors.
However, for fashion enthusiasts with designer taste, hyper-specific outfit requests may be accommodated alongside a shopping date ;).
What should I bring to our date?
Unless you have special requests, you just need to bring yourself. If we're spending more than an hour together, drinks to start the evening are often a good idea.
Can I bring a gift?
Sure! Pop over to my wishlist for ideas.
What do you like to drink/eat?
Drink: Wine! Bubbles always work, and I also enjoy big, bold reds or crisp, bright white wines (yep, I'm giving you the ideal language for the wine-store guy!). When the occasion calls for it... I opt for top-shelf reposado tequila on the rocks or a dry vodka martini, extra dirty.
Food: I would strongly prefer that you not bring sweets to our dates (even "healthy" ones!) Between my Type-A devotion to a healthy lifestyle (lol) and a severe food allergy, I will decline to indulge in sweets. I would hate for your lovely gesture to go to waste!
If you'd like to bring snacks... fresh fruit, nuts, or charcuterie will be devoured!
Are there any types of cuisines you don't like?
Don't be too afraid of those allergies! I can eat at almost every restaurant cuisine. Unfortunately, Chinese and Japanese are difficult for me.
What forms of payments do you take? Do you accept electronic payments?
For all new clients, I only accept cash. Please inquire about electronic payment options if interested.
Where is your incall located?
I do not have a permanent incall. I host from upscale, centrally-located hotels and occasionally upscale, discreet apartments.
Do you have any friends you could introduce me to?
Yes! Please get in touch with me to discuss :)
Do you have an age minimum or maximum?
I do not have an age maximum, but I no longer see anyone under 30.
I apply extra screening to potential dates under 35. If you're under 35 and hoping to meet me, requests for dates of 4+ hours suggest that we may be compatible.
I keep my circle very small, and only spend time with my most-compatible clients. While I've met many wonderful men in this world younger than 35, I have usually found that this group is seeking a purely physical "PSE" experience. While there's nothing wrong with seeking a purely physical experience, it's not where I've found the most enjoyment in this world.
Are you newbie-friendly?
Absolutely. My suggestion would be to read my site thoroughly and do a bit of research before reaching out. Friendly reminder that I will not accept ignorance as an excuse for engaging in disrespectful or inappropriate behavior.
I'm totally new to this; how long of a date should I book?!
My most common bookings are 4-6 hours. Even on a first meeting, extended dates give us a leisurely, natural pace to build chemistry over a meal or activity.
I'll add that, for me, the word "companion" and the idea of the "girlfriend experience" aren't euphemisms. Instead, they accurately describe the experience I offer and what suitors who choose to see me again and again describe as what they love most about our time together. Our dates will feel casual, natural, and unscripted.
Of course, many don't feel comfortable investing that much time right off the bat-- "what if we don't click?!" I totally get that! In my experience... if you've read my website, Twitter, and Curious Cat: you have a full sense of my personality. Still, feel free to start with the 2-hour date, because I know you'll want to do longer on our second date, anyway ;).