How should I present your compensation?Let's take care of it right away so that we can jump right into our date! -If we're meeting behind closed doors... please place the unsealed, unmarked envelope in the bathroom near the beginning of our date. Feel free to take this time at the start of our date to freshen up or pop one of my provided breath mints :). Thank you for understanding that I will excuse myself to confirm that the proper amount is in the envelope. -If we have a public meeting planned... And it's the first time we're meeting; please place your unmarked envelope/card discreetly into a gift bag. While this should go without saying, I gently request that you not give me an envelope in a public setting.
What will you be wearing when we meet?It depends where we're meeting! My wardrobe allows me to blend in nearly anywhere you have in mind. If you're coming to my incall, my default is a cocktail dress and heels. For outcalls and public outings, discretion is always my main priority. I aim to blend in. Depending on the season, time of day, and city of our date, I will arrive in modest clothing that suits the environment and occasion.
Do you take special outfit requests?To a certain extent... please read on :). I only accept general requests. For example, a category of attire -- casual/jeans, cocktail dress, thigh-highs/garter, yoga pants, etc. I've found more specific requests -- "wear exactly this outfit"-- creates a transactional dynamic that extends far beyond a mere outfit request. It's a dynamic I've found to be incompatible with the relationships I enjoy most in this world. However, for fashion enthusiasts with designer taste, hyper-specific outfit requests may be accommodated alongside a shopping date ;).
What should I bring to our date?Unless you have special requests, you just need to bring yourself. If we're spending more than an hour together, drinks to start the evening is a good idea.
I'd like to bring or pre-order a snack for our date. What do you like?If you'd like to bring snacks... fresh fruit, nuts, or charcuterie will be devoured! I would strongly prefer that you not bring sweets to our dates (even "healthy" ones!) I would hate for your lovely gesture to go to waste!
Do you offer duos?I love duos! I have some fantastic duo partners across the country and several companions on my list that I'd love to meet :)
What forms of payments do you take? Do you accept electronic payments?For all new clients, I only accept cash. Regular clients, please inquire about electronic payment options if interested. Please do not assume you will be able to pay the balance electronically on arrival-- that may not be an option.
Do you have an age minimum or maximum?I do not have an age maximum, but I no longer see anyone under 30. I don't have exceptions. I apply extra screening to potential dates under 35. If you're under 35 and hoping to meet me, requests for dates of 4+ hours suggest we may be compatible. Why? I keep my circle very small and only spend time with the most-compatible clients. While I've met many wonderful men in this world younger than 35, I have usually found that this group is s eeking a purely physical experience. While there's nothing wrong with seeking a purely physical experience, it's not where I've found the most enjoyment in this world.
Where do you live... anyway?As of 2022, I am not available in my home base. I am onlyavailable when visiting cities (see my newsletter!) and for limited FMTY. For now, I regularly spend time in NYC, Chicago, and DC every 1-3 months.
What's your drink of choice?Most often - wine.. I enjoy jammy, rich reds and crisp, bright white wines (yep, I'm giving you the ideal language for the wine-store guy!). Bubbles always work, too! When the occasion calls for it... I opt for a dry vodka martini, extra dirty.
Are there any types of cuisines/restaurants you don't like?I can eat at almost every restaurant cuisine. Sadly, Chinese and Japanese are difficult for me due to some food allergies! Sushi can work, but. please chat wit me before it first :)
Are you newbie-friendly?Absolutely. My suggestion would be to read my site thoroughly and do a bit of research before reaching out. Friendly nudge that I don't accept ignorance as an excuse for disrespectful or inappropriate behavior and do not have the desire to "teach" you to be respectful to women or a good client.
How long of a date should I book?!My most common bookings are 4-6 hours. Even on a first meeting, extended dates give us a leisurely, natural pace to build chemistry over a meal or activity. For me, the word "companion" and the idea of the "girlfriend experience" aren't euphemisms. Instead, they accurately describe the experience I offer and what suitors who choose to see me again and again describe as their favorite part about our time together. Our dates will feel casual, natural, and unscripted.
What should I do to prepare for meeting you?Please give my etiquette section, FAQ, and "the fine print" on the patronage page a close reading. Then, maybe read it again. If any questions remain - please feel free to reach out to me via email and I'd be happy to answer :)
NEW FRIENDS: Please Read!
Due to a rise in attempts to film dates, all personal belongings (keys, water bottles, phones, etc) must be placed in a designated drawer or closet upon arrival or shortly after presenting the envelope.
Items beyond clothing may not be left in the bathroom.
If access to your phone is necessary during our date, I may need to inspect the phone or place it in another designated area. Glasses may need to be inspected.
I appreciate you doing this without my asking.
There is nothing quite as appealing as a freshly showered man with minty breath :). You're always welcome to shower and freshen up at my incall. You'll notice that my bathroom is always stocked with ample mouthwash and mints.
Email + Text Etiquette
Email is the best way to reach out and arrange dates. I ask for 24 hours to respond before following up unless we're confirming details of our upcoming date.
Privacy & Discretion
This is worth repeating: privacy and discretion are my highest priorities. My photos are blurred for my privacy and safety. Any requests for additional photos will be the end of our communication. The same goes for the way I treat your personal information. I will never divulge your personal details or speak about our time together.
On dates, I prefer to blend into my surroundings, rather than attracting turned heads, curious ears, or camera phones.
If we ever cross paths in public, I will not acknowledge our friendship.
I will always make the safest assumption: that you also expect discretion and that our relationship does not extend outside the confines of our booked time. I will never approach or acknowledge you outside of an arranged booking and gently request the same.
Extended Dates & Overnight Etiquette
I so appreciate my adventure partners understanding that I require 7-8 hours of uninterrupted beauty sleep on overnights and access to caffeine on wakeup. While planning, please keep in mind that I typically start to lose my sparkle after midnight.
On trips of 24 hours and up, I require 8 hours of sleep per night.
On extended weekends, I appreciate you keeping in mind that I need a few hours of solo time a day to maintain my fitness routine, attend to matters at home, and preserve my characteristically upbeat energy ;).
When looking for the perfect accommodation for our multi-day trip, I've found weekends are most comfortable with 1.5 bathrooms and a spacious, suite-style room. I prefer accommodations with access to a gym.
When planning our itinerary, please keep in mind that I enjoy dressing to impress and require time to get ready for dinner or outings. For particularly active trips, I recommend planning downtime for both of us during the day.
"What kinds of questions are inappropriate to ask?" :
I know these questions are rarely asked with malicious intent, so I'd like to prevent them ahead of time!
To keep our time together fun & light-hearted, please avoid asking:
"What is your real name?"
"What's your real job?"
"Do you do (insert illegal service)?'
"How many clients do you see per day/per week/per year?"
"So... busy day today? When's your next client?"
"What was your worst experience/client doing this?"
"Will you go to dinner/coffee/lunch/vacation 'off the clock' since we get along so well?"