Q & A
How should I present your compensation?
Let's take care of it right away so that we can jump right into our date!
-If we're meeting behind closed doors... please place the unsealed, unmarked envelope in the bathroom near the beginning of our date. Feel free to take this time at the start of our date to freshen up or pop one of my provided breath mints :).
Thank you for understanding that I will excuse myself to confirm that the proper amount is in the envelope.
-If we have a public meeting planned... And it's the first time we're meeting; please place your unmarked envelope/card discreetly into a gift bag. While this should go without saying, I gently request that you not give me an envelope in a public setting.
What will you be wearing when we meet?
It depends where we're meeting! My wardrobe allows me to blend in nearly anywhere you have in mind. If you're coming to my incall, my default is a cocktail dress and heels.
For outcalls and public outings, discretion is always my main priority. I aim to blend in. Depending on the season, time of day, and city of our date, I will arrive in modest clothing that suits the environment and occasion.
Where do you live... anyway?
As of 2022, I am not available in my home base. I am only available when visiting cities (see my newsletter!) and for limited FMTY. For now, I regularly spend time in NYC, Chicago, and DC every 1-3 months.
Do you take special outfit requests?
To a certain extent... please read on :). I only accept general requests.
For example, a category of attire -- casual/jeans, cocktail dress, thigh-highs/garter, yoga pants, etc.
I appreciate you understanding that I've found more specific requests -- "wear exactly this outfit"-- creates a transactional dynamic that extends far beyond an outfit request. It isn't a dynamic I find compatible with the relationships I seek to curate in this world.
However, for fashion enthusiasts with designer taste, hyper-specific outfit requests may be accommodated alongside a shopping date ;).
What should I bring to our date?
Unless you have special requests, you just need to bring yourself. If we're spending more than an hour together, drinks to start the evening is a good idea.
Can I bring a gift?
Sure! Pop over to my wishlist for ideas.
What do you like to drink/eat?
Drink: Wine! Bubbles always work, and I also enjoy big, bold reds or crisp, bright white wines (yep, I'm giving you the ideal language for the wine-store guy!). When the occasion calls for it... I opt for top-shelf reposado tequila on the rocks or a dry vodka martini, extra dirty.
Food: I would strongly prefer that you not bring sweets to our dates (even "healthy" ones!) I would hate for your lovely gesture to go to waste!
If you'd like to bring snacks... fresh fruit, nuts, or charcuterie will be devoured!
Are there any types of cuisines you don't like?
Don't be too afraid of those allergies! I can eat at almost every restaurant cuisine. Sadly, Chinese and Japanese are difficult for me.
What forms of payments do you take? Do you accept electronic payments?
For all new clients, I only accept cash. Please inquire about electronic payment options if interested.
Where is your incall located?
I do not have a permanent incall. I host from upscale, centrally-located hotels and occasionally upscale, discreet apartments.
Do you have any friends you could introduce me to?
Yes! Please get in touch with me to discuss :)
Do you have an age minimum or maximum?
I do not have an age maximum, but I no longer see anyone under 30. I don't have exceptions.
I apply extra screening to potential dates under 35. If you're under 35 and hoping to meet me, requests for dates of 4+ hours suggest we may be compatible.
I keep my circle very small and only spend time with my most-compatible clients. While I've met many wonderful men in this world younger than 35, I have usually found that this group is seeking a purely physical experience. While there's nothing wrong with seeking a purely physical experience, it's not where I've found the most enjoyment in this world.
Are you newbie-friendly?
Absolutely. My suggestion would be to read my site thoroughly and do a bit of research before reaching out. Friendly reminder that I don't accept ignorance as an excuse for disrespectful or inappropriate behavior.
I'm totally new to this; how long of a date should I book?!
My most common bookings are 4-6 hours. Even on a first meeting, extended dates give us a leisurely, natural pace to build chemistry over a meal or activity.
For me, the word "companion" and the idea of the "girlfriend experience" aren't euphemisms. Instead, they accurately describe the experience I offer and what suitors who choose to see me again and again describe as their favorite part about our time together. Our dates will feel casual, natural, and unscripted.